
I love reading fashion blogs, they are my Eco-conscious replacement for reading magazines… the magazines that my Mom would always give me a hard time about reading. Whenever I would buy one with my babysitting money she would say something along the lines of ”why do you want to read that trash? They make women seem stupid. You are beautiful the way you are. Now go read a real book”. And thanks to her I did read a lot of real books… a lot of trash too but at least it got my reading speed up, right?
But I digress, fashion blogs! Just today over on Garance Dore she has a post up where she mentions her Mom buying a Bulgari necklace in the 80’s. I can’t imagine growing up in a household where you could afford buying a Bulgari necklace! This reminds me of when my Mom was informed that her beautiful chunky amber necklace given to her by a Polish Nun friend was not in fact the plastic she had believed it to be. My mom was never a fashionista by any means. The woman could get dressed and out the door in 5 minutes flat. She was ready to change a tire and get dirty in a skirt suit if she had to. They were after all, just clothes. But she taught me some very important things about appearance.
*Once your past puberty don’t show your belly unless you are on the beach in a bikini, otherwise you just look trashy.
*Dress appropriately for the occasion. Never wear jeans or flip flops to any kind of religious gathering.
*Know what works for you so you can get out of the house quickly in the morning. A swipe of pinky red lipstick, hair twisted up, curled eyelashes, spritz of Chanel no.5 and you’re out the door. That was her every workday without fail and she looked gorgeous.
*Chunky sneakers just look stupid
*Do your nails at home and save the money! Clean, filed, fingernails and “rich red” toenails take ten minutes and make it look like you did a lot more work than you really did.
*A kind smile and a strong handshake says “I’m nice but don’t try to take advantage of me, I fight back!”
*And lastly, possibly one of the most important in my book (and my parents, especially my Dad) is good posture. I can’t tell you the number of times that I was told to sit up straight and got a poke in the back. My sister and I to this day have the hilarious reaction to instantly straighten up when our Dad touches our back. We’re like Pavolv’s dog!
Maybe she didn’t have the best fashion sense when it came to picking out something stylish or the latest trend. But due to these few, simple things she came off looking put together but more importantly allowed her personality to shine not her clothes.
Image above: 50’s Department Store Ad